2018: Review and Resolution

2018 seemed to go like the speed of light. Maybe I think and say that every year? I've been feeling negative lately which makes it difficult to view the past twelve months objectively, but I'll try!

GOOD THINGS:

DIY house repairs. This year I finished painting the sides of my house, sawed a hole in the roof for added ventilation, replaced a fence post and repaired fence parts, lined the last closet, silver sealed my dormer roof (in blazing 90 degree weather), fixed a gutter (in a thunderstorm), and prepped the garage for painting although didn't quite get to it. I paid absolutely no one money for substandard construction. I'm very proud of myself.

Health care avoidance. I've managed to avoid doctors and medical professionals of all kind for the last eight months. This is after eight months of incompetence overexposure, however, so I plan to avoid any and all for the rest of my life to make up for the trauma.

The Dems. Crazy liberals. Snowflakes. We saw the election of some great people in politics, people destined to change the course of America. People like Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez who is incredibly capable and intelligent with way more panache and energy than any of the old Republican guard. She's quick with the tweets and is going to kick ass. Also, Beto O'Rourke. I enjoy listening to his speeches. Watching Kamala Harris demand answers from the rapist pig during the Senate hearing made my heart sing. If she runs for president in 2020, she's got my vote. We need a strong woman leading the country. (Why do they call Democrats snowflakes? I've never figured that out. Snowflakes are miracles of nature, every one of them different and beautiful. Ummm....)

My blog. I love conversing with myself. It's great therapy. Thank you to anyone who might wander into it accidentally.

Free stuff, cheap stuff. The garage, yard and estate sales were outstanding this year!!

Jazz. I found a really cool jazz radio station online www.jazzradio.com and I listen to it all the time. Wonderful. So soothing.

New neighbor! New GOOD neighbor. No barking dogs. He removes the leaves from his tree off my driveway. He lets me dump my compost over his cliff. He gives me things. Wow. I forgot what good neighbors are like. I hope he doesn't change. Rathole does that to a person.

Fragrance-free friends. They are few and far between, sometimes in different countries, but I appreciate all the email correspondence, support, and kindness. They don't realize how much they contribute to my quality of life even those who rarely write. When they do it's lovely and makes me feel alive.

Glass on glass mosaics. OMG! Mosaics are so fun...alternating with frustration which kind of adds to the adventure. Patience has never been my strong suit and it is the number one skill one needs to master this art form although I can tell mastery will take me a lifetime. Glass doesn't always do what you want. Still, mosaics have replaced every substandard strategy for entertainment I've attempted as of late out in the middle of no where. The colors are so cheerful and the patterns so beautiful. It has provided me all kinds of joy.

"America"

IN THE MIDDLE:

Mosaics. I really should put mosaics not really here, in between good and bad. First, the tools and supplies are incredibly expensive. Second, my house is a disaster with most of my living room a workroom, the kitchen a process room, and my office a planning room. Just today I looked around for a surface and used the clothes dryer. What a mess!

Living Room. Most of the furniture has been moved out.

One of the kitchen tables. 

The other kitchen table...I've run out of tables. I keep eyeing the large
art tables out in my garage, but they are too heavy to move.
I've tried...twice! LOL!

Third, it is one of the most dangerous crafts I've ever encountered! So far my thumb got infected, swelled and the nerves were damaged for a couple weeks. I lacerated a finger nearly off on a piece of dirty, broken glass which gushed blood for about a half hour. The thumbs and first two fingers of both hands have callouses and scars from all the cuts and the wire I use to hang the mosaics is sharp and pokey which causes bleeding. I found some nitrile surgical gloves that are small, thick and tight and often cover my fingers with bandaids for protection. I also have to wear glasses to protect my eyes from the flying shards of glass and be very careful where I walk since these sharp shards of glass are all over my floors and must be constantly swept or vacuumed. Good god! No one ever talks about the risks and I often wonder if the risks are worth it, but I keep persevering! And of course, I'm pretty sure this is another creative endeavor that will uncontrollably reproduce itself and then get shoved into the back of a closet in a box never to be seen again (keeping all the other art things company). Until then, I'm having fun...and mosaics are still on my "Good Things" list!

Work. I like money. My eyes didn't fail me this year and neither did any other body parts.

Health. Everything seems to be working right now. Knock on wood. Eight months ago this was not the case. I recently read a book called Natural Causes by Barbara Ehrenreich about how we are unnecessarily preoccupied with keeping ourselves alive. As a biochemical researcher, her theory is once we get to a certain age our bodies are TRYING to self-destruct. It's the way organisms work. The older, less capable, less effective bodies make way for the younger so the species survives. Our bodies are not "holistic" as new-age doctors want you to believe and she gives the autoimmune diseases as an example along with inflammatory-based diseases such as Alzheimer's and atherosclerosis where our own cells are bent on destruction. On purpose! The money-making marketing of the health industry wants you to believe otherwise so you'll spend your dollars on exercise equipment, gym memberships, fancy foods, fad diets, and lots of DOCTORS and DRUGS in an attempt to defy the inevitable. There is no such thing as age-reversing. Great book and perspective. Like the author who has decided against future, unnecessary medical visits, I'm done....

BAD THINGS:

Health care. Useless, substandard, expensive, waste of time. This year was the worst. I saw at least a dozen doctors this year before I called it quits: three naturopaths, one functional medicine, three conventional twits, two eye doctors, one gastroenterologist, several radiologists, and one acupuncturist. And the hospital visit. Not one could diagnose me correctly nor offer any relief of any kind for anything.  I've assessed the last twenty years, most of it spent in the throes of MCS, and have realized not one medical professional has ever helped me with anything. NOTHING. The closest was my ex-environmental medicine doctor who provided a diagnosis and understanding, but prescribed "avoidance" as the only remedy. Sorry...not much of a solution, but perhaps the only solution until research gets its ass in gear. I am thankful for books and the internet and the ability to read or I'd be in misery.

People. I have come to the conclusion I hate people. Maybe I always did? I used to think most people were basically good, honest, kind, loyal, caring, but veered toward bad as an exception. I don't believe this anymore. I've always known they were disappointing, but I'm inclined to think they are useless and often evil on so many levels.  In my quest for new friendships and meaningful relationships searching both in my community and online, I've encountered way too much self-centeredness, selfishness, dishonesty, and stupidity. It makes me wonder if I've just become too intolerant. Maybe. Perhaps forgiving and settling for too long and now tired of it? Is this just how our society is now, everyone focused on themselves and what they can get from others? A culture of misery? Trumpism? Or maybe there are just no quality people in Rathole? And after each bad experience it makes me thankful I have the option to be alone. I'd rather be alone than deal with most humans. It makes me think I should get a dog.

Sexism. The Kavanaugh hearing was an eye-opener. We think as a society we have progressed into a civilization that honors all human dignity, but clearly women are still second-class citizens perceived as objects to be used, abused and thrown away. How someone like that can be nominated to the Supreme Court is shocking. But again, look who's president...

Dump. What a failure. What an embarrassment. Every step of the way he lies, manipulates, deflects, and insults. The ultimate immature, unprofessional man-baby. Clearly his agenda is to destroy our country by making us the laughing stock of the world as he spews his hate and ignorance. I pray he is arrested and imprisoned along with his sleazy cohorts and family. I'm sure all those Russian-loving, gullible imbeciles who voted for him are really proud. So shameful. How does anyone vote for such a horrible person without vomiting every time they look in the mirror?

Well, look how wonderful this year was!! I'm feeling less negative now.

NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS:

1.) No doctors. Ever again.

2.) Avoid construction workers, although I am planning some plumbing and deck repairs in the near future so I guess I can't completely cross them off my list.

3.) Find some more friends. Although this was last year's resolution and I failed miserably at it, I haven't given up all hope. There must be someone out there who shares my ideals, can be fragrance-free, and wants to have some friendship fun.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

December Movie Reviews

*****  Exceptional

****    Great

***      OK

**        So So

*          Blah

Cold in July Is about a clean-cut family guy (Michael C. Hall) who shoots and kills an intruder who has broken into his house.  The police tell him the intruder was a wanted felon and he did society a favor. The intruder's newly-released-from-prison ex-con father (Sam Shepherd) comes a calling, isn't happy about his only son being murdered, and starts stalking and intimidating the family. The police do a stake out at family guy's house then claim they ran the ex-con out of town. In the meantime, Family Guy sees a wanted poster and realizes he didn't kill the wanted felon, but the police tell him he must be in shock, go home, forget about it. When Family Guy decides to go back to the police station to ask more questions, he witnesses the police dragging the ex-con forcibly out of the police station, injecting him with some kind of a sedative, and leaving him on the train tracks with a train coming down the tracks. Family Guy rescues the ex-con and asks, WTF is going on?  Ex-con phones his old Army buddy who is now a private investigator (Don Johnson) and they attempt to answer that very question. Never a dull moment. Don Johnson's character was delightful. All great performances. I'm not sure I'm convinced Family Guy who was shaking so hard in the first scene trying to load his handgun is the same guy at the end who is acting like a professional law enforcement officer. Hmmm...and none of the questions Family Guy had were ever answered: who did he shoot? Why were the police murdering the ex-con? Was he just in the wrong place at the wrong time for their plan to work? The plot kind of twists into something totally different. Still interesting. Lots of blood and shoot-em-up which is not my favorite, but worked fine. Stupid title. You'd think someone could come up with something better. Just off the top of my head I'd take something out of the movie like "Fear of Life" which is the justifiable homicide law that allows Family Guy to get away with a self-defense charge. Way more interesting and connected to the script. Cold in July? What the hell is that? ****

God Help the Girl is about a young woman in a mental institution although they aren't clear why...there was a boyfriend she followed from Australia to Britain, and she wasn't eating...I have no idea. She writes music, escapes the institution, and finds two people to start a band with her. The music was good. It was a little like a 1960s musical where they just burst into song and start dancing which was odd. Her clothes were outstanding. Another stupid title. **

Little Accidents is about a mining community after a mining accident and the disappearance of the mining foreman's teenage son. Excellent story, beautiful photography, lots of conflict and tension between characters and outstanding character development presented quickly and efficiently at the beginning. Great performances. Love the title. ****

The Meg is a science-fiction about science gone wrong and although I'm not a fan of sci-fi, I do like a storyline that makes sense rather than giving long convoluted scientific speeches on how the craziness happened. Not only do these explanations rarely make sense, but usually a total waste of time. For this story an underwater research station inadvertently opens a portal from a hidden trench in the Pacific Ocean. OK. I can get into that. And up from the depths comes a Megalodon - a 75-foot thought to have been prehistoric shark with a mean disposition. It was exciting and fun with great special effects and lots of humor. It also had lots of bad scriptwriting filled with sentimentality and overacting, but the giant, incredibly ugly shark made up for it. ***

Sold is about a twelve-year old girl in Nepal who is sold to a brothel by her very poor family thinking she was being sent to a better life in the city to work for rich people. When she realizes what she's expected to do, she fights. They beat her and when that doesn't work, they drug her and have her raped repeatedly into submission. So horrible this is based on a true story. An American woman (Gillian Anderson) is hired as a photographer by a humanitarian organization and sees this young girl calling out from her barred window for help. They plan to find and rescue her, but the logistics take time. So very sad human trafficking is so wide-spread. I can't imagine what it must be like for a child. It's horrifying there are so many degenerate men in the world who keep this business going. They all need to have their dicks cuts off. ****

The Screaming Woman I saw this movie on television when I was a kid and it has haunted me all my life, popping into my memory every now and then. It was a made-for-TV horror movie, but since it was made in the 1970s it's more melodramatic than scary, but for a kid it was frightening! It's about an older, wealthy woman (Olivia de Havilland) who had a mental break after her husband died and was sent to an asylum to recuperate. Her son and his money-hungry wife want to have her permanently committed so they can sell her very lavish house and property to a development company, of course. She is now home, and on her first outing away from the house comes across a dog on her property digging. She stops, investigates, tries to shoo the dog away, and hears a voice coming up from the ground calling for help. She runs hysterically back to the house screaming about a woman buried alive, but everyone is wondering if they let her out too soon. She calls the police and they too think she is wasting their time. She runs through the neighborhood trying to get someone to help her because her arthritis prevents her from digging the woman up herself, but her reputation for being a little crazy proceeds her and the fact no one likes her because she's rich and mean doesn't help either. Then she knocks on the door of the man who thought he murdered and buried his wife...he's not real thrilled she's still alive.  Even now in 2018 it's quite scary and says a lot about how elderly people are treated, dismissed, and constantly judged as incompetent for no reason other than someone is trying to control them. Great movie even for all the melodramatic performances. Love the high-end 70s California architecture and fashion. The film quality wasn't very good, but I watched it online copied from an old horror movie program like the ones we watched when we were kids. I remember watching old horror movies on "Nightmare Theater" every Friday night. LOL. ****

Christmas Tree

I was in an antique store the other day and stuffed in the corner is this Christmas tree someone made out of wood slats! Wow.

It might not be as pretty, maybe it needs some ornaments (?) or something, but definitely non-toxic, fascinating, and easy to make. It's just wood slats with a hole drilled on one end, strung together with a pole, then fanned. A conversation piece for sure!

MCS and Health Care Accessibility

I recently wrote this letter to a state representative who is working on health care accessibility for the chemically sensitive. I was surprised to hear of any politician who has this issue on their agenda, but it seems this one has a whole committee of like-minded people! We always think we are alone in our struggles. This gives me hope, but I know change is slow in coming...

I am writing on the lack of health care accessibility for people with Multiple Chemical Sensitivity (MCS). MCS is a medical condition where everyday chemical-based products create illness and often life-threatening side effects compromising health and negatively impacting quality of life. For MCS patients, health care is limited due to the lack of fragrance-free policies for staff and patients in medical facilities.

I was diagnosed with Multiple Chemical Sensitivity in 2002 after being poisoned at the school where I taught. Although the school was relatively new, only ten years old, the faulty ventilation system created a mold problem. My first day on the job the carpets were being replaced and the adhesives were being stripped with toxic chemicals. Everyone complained of the various smells in the building, however, it didn't bother me until they all began spraying the halls and classrooms with perfumes and air fresheners to camouflage the stink. When my health deteriorated beyond repair, I lost my teaching career, I was forced to move out of the city away from family and friends, I discontinued most recreational activities involving people, and I reinvented a new, isolated life away from the use of everyday chemical poisons.

Health care in general is a struggle. Most conventional medicine doctors who are dependent on chemical company pharmaceuticals don't recognize MSC and even if they do they are inadequately prepared or trained in knowing how to address it. Research is virtually nonexistent since chemical companies are in control of funding much of the time. When I first started showing signs of MCS, I went a local, well-known hospital with a department specializing in environmental medicine. The doctor whispered confidentially it was clear I was reacting to the air fresheners and perfumes on the job, but if he admitted this, the American Medical Association would "come down on him." After many years of experience I have found disclosing chemical sensitivity is met with patronizing skepticism and condescending sarcasm so I have learned if I want even substandard, partial treatment for any health condition, I must avoid mentioning any complications related to MCS.

Unfortunately, over the years I have mentioned my MCS diagnosis to not only environmental medicine specialists, but naturopaths and integrative or holistic doctors because they acknowledge the problem. The risk with disclosure is the information ends up in my records which are sometimes transferred to other, less knowledgeable doctors. I've been denied specialist care because of this information and I've had conventional doctors treat me with contempt and disrespect after they review my records. Some confess on the phone or in the office that is why I'm being denied. There are no patient protection laws. Doctors can deny treatment or care to anyone for whatever reason. I must constantly be vigilant with what I disclose to any doctor as it can compromise health care options that would otherwise be available to me.

Due to this AMA-controlled denial and skepticism, finding a health care facility that is fragrance-free or scent-free is challenging due to the copious use of perfumes, colognes, air fresheners, or essential oils by doctors, nurses, and staff members. My former optometrist now uses air fresheners due to a ventilation problem after an office remodel. A local dentist sprays his office down with air fresheners. The area chiropractor fills his office at Christmas time with fake floral arrangements and wreaths scented with chemicals. Another local doctor baths in body spray in attempt to hide his own bad body odor. I've even experienced naturopaths or acupuncturists who scent their offices with "natural" air fresheners, essential oils, incense, or scented candles. I cannot enter scented spaces without becoming incredibly ill. The Hippocratic Oath states health care professionals should do no harm. Using poisonous chemical-based scented products in these facilities is contradictory to the whole point of seeking medical care.

Unfortunately, in order to protect my health, I often must disclose my limitations by asking if the air quality of medical facilities are safe. I always call an office anonymously prior to making an appointment and ask if their doctors, nurses or office personnel wear fragrances or use air fresheners. Most do.  If I am told they don't, I cautiously and again anonymously visit before making the appointment unless travel time restricts a casual visit.  Most people don't understand basic questions regarding "scented products" or "fragrances" and have no comprehension of the vast products that are included in this category.  Others defiantly defend their personal habits. The staff at one local clinic does use perfumes and colognes and they have informed me they have no plan to discontinue this unhealthy practice. I was told by the physician's assistant in another facility she most certainly does use fragrances and I should find another clinic.

At even another doctor's office a receptionist told me they didn't use fragrances so I made an appointment and in excited anticipation waited a month to see the doctor. The afternoon before my appointment having not received a confirmation call I called the office myself. Determined to maintain my health knowing I must continuously protect myself from unexpected environmental changes, I asked again if fragrances or scented products were being used. The receptionist informed me, "Of course you can wear perfume! We all do." Shocked I replied, "But I was told your office didn't use fragrances." She became flustered, apologized for not understanding my question, and corrected herself. I sighed in relief and thanked her. This worried me greatly, but needing medical care I was desperate to believe it would work. Fifteen minutes later I was called back and told not to bother coming in because the doctor didn't think it would be a "good fit." I sat on the phone in silence, speechless. She repeated and asked if I understood they were cancelling my appointment at the last minute. According to their cancellation policy, I would be charged $50.00 for any appointment cancelled without a twenty-four hour notice. Unfortunately, their policy did not extend to their own cancellation without adequate warning.

The few health care facilities that do have a fragrance-free policy for staff rarely do they extend this policy to patients as it would be bad for business. Money, not health care, is always the priority. If I choose to risk an exposure out of desperation, I must ask which day is the least busiest and must plan my appointment to be the first one of the day stressing and praying no stinkers will contaminate the air space. This time slot is popular so waiting for weeks for an appointment is a common occurrence. Still, this doesn't always work and if I must cancel due to an exposure in their office, a cancellation fee is always imposed. Having MCS is very expensive.

Even some medical facilities that do have comprehensive fragrance-free policies don't enforce them. I worked for a medical clinic who professed MCS knowledge and had a stated chemical-free policy, but behind the scenes they were spraying toxic mold killer in their plants on the weekends and some of their staff wore scented products to work. When patients displayed side effects from these exposures, the doctors and staff claimed ignorance and blamed the patient. Another medical office has a policy and posts warnings on their doors, however, they have products scented with essential oils in their office contaminating the air. (Essential oils, even those claiming to be natural or organic, are processed with chemicals and emit VOCs making them just as toxic as any other fragrance.) Written and posted policies that are not enforced are false advertising and dangerous to those of us who depend on these protections.

I've heard as many as eighteen percent of the population are seriously chemically sensitive requiring lifestyle alterations to avoid life-threatening complications. Around five percent are classified as disabled due to MCS. Thirty-three percent of the population have minor side effects to everyday poisons and experience headaches, sinus congestion, dizziness, or coughing that can be erroneously explained away as a cold. These statistics have increased in the sixteen years since I was diagnosed.

Those with Multiple Chemical Sensitivity are not the only patients who react badly to chemically-based scented products. People with asthma, COPD, or other respiratory problems are seriously impacted by fragrances. Patients with cancer, autoimmune diseases, headaches/migraines, or women who are pregnant can be very sensitive to scented products as well. Allowing these toxins in medical facilities is detrimental to everyone's health and negates the whole concept of health care.

These are just a handful of examples of how I personally I've been treated by health care professionals in the last sixteen years. I do recognize in the last five years it seems health care is more aware of MCS and more facilities are making a better effort toward safer air quality. This is a slow improvement, but a hopeful one. In addition, although I appreciate the effort of the Affordable Health Care Act in the ability to obtain reasonably priced health care insurance, I resent the requirement of insurance. What is the point of purchasing insurance if health care is not accessible? Although health care dialogue always seems to center on the insurance issue, the medical system as a whole is in dire need of major reform.

Thank you. If you have any questions regarding my experiences, I'd be happy to answer them.

  

These are just a few examples of what I have to deal with when I attempt to go to a doctor. I tried to keep it short, but failed miserably. I could write a whole book on the subject! 

Stink!

I just discovered, Stink!, a 2015 film on the toxic chemicals in our every day products. The preview is outstanding. The film is produced by Netflix. This interview with the director is very informative:

OH MY GOD, that movie was frightening! The methods in which the chemical companies and their lobbyists double-talk around regulation is absolutely shocking. The fact that Europe and China have better regulations than the United States is disgusting. The movie makes a point that the USA is now a chemical dumping ground for manufacturers because of our lack of oversight so companies create cheaper products with more toxic chemicals because they can. We are their market. Asthma, autism, cancer, diabetes, obesity, reproductive issues, and cardiovascular disease are all linked to toxic chemicals.

BUYER BEWARE! No US agency or official is looking out for consumers. The manufacturers, retail outlets, or trade agencies are just out to make profits and don't give a rip about the health issues caused by toxic chemicals. We are on our own. If it's on the shelve, there is every guarantee the ingredients are not regulated, controlled or even researched for safety and the labels are not to be believed. I already knew this, but it was still frightening and depressing.

There was a woman featured who is a "Green Living Expert." She goes into people's houses and identifies the toxic products they are using. Heck, I could do that! I'd be good at it!

Scary movie. Everyone needs to see it. If they did and stopped buying these toxic products, we'd start to see real change.

Fete

The party series continues...

I found this chair in a pile of stuff in an alley with the sign "free":

Although I vowed I wouldn't paint anymore furniture and sold most of the pieces left in the garage, this one was so small I couldn't help myself.

Why Are These Organic Blueberries Making Me Ill?

I eat a lot of blueberries. Blueberry season starts in July and I pick a freezer-full until the farm runs out. Yeah, I have a small freezer. If I had one of those monster freezers, I'd fill one of those. That's how much I love organic blueberries. High in antioxidants, fiber, and nutrients, I indulge and don't feel guilty one bit.

I'm spoiled living just minutes away from one of the best and most trustworthy organic farms in the whole state, if not the whole country. I've witnessed first hand their chickens fertilizing the bushes. I've watched how they grow their gardens and maintain their farm so I know they aren't pulling a fast one on their customers with less-than-honest claims and slipping in conventional, non-organic methods.

But with expectations of quality, it makes store-bought blueberries seem very substandard. They are smaller, with questionable taste and texture, and well, horribly expensive. The price for u-pick, fresh organic blueberries is $2.00 per pound. For store-bought, fresh, organic is about $5.00 per tiny container, and frozen, organic is about $6.00 per pound. So when I run out of berries in December, I'm at a loss. I think maybe I just need to stop eating so many? Take a break and wait it out until next July. That never works. I start craving them. So I do the next best thing and shop the frozen food aisle.

Costco, our local, cheap, big-box grocery warehouse, carries some organic foods. Last year I discovered they have frozen, organic blueberries so I supplemented my winter fruit intake with store-bought. They were good. Never as good as fresh or even freshly-picked frozen, but still good. They cost just over $8 for 3 pounds which is suspiciously cheap, but Costco is all about saving money so I didn't question it.

This year when I ran out of fresh, frozen, again, I bought some from Costco. They were weird. They were dark, almost black. Were they that black last year? When they are cooked they still hold their shape which is odd. The taste...good god, they tasted like someone injected perfume in them! Whew! At first I thought maybe this is just the flavor and it's another variety of blueberry? Maybe African blueberries or South American blueberries? Taiwanese blueberries?

Then I started feeling sick. At first I didn't connect it to the blueberries. Sometimes it was a bit of a headache. Sometimes neck pain. Sometimes nightmares. These are common side effects of a chemical exposure. I did a few food elimination tests and sure enough it's the blueberries. During the third test I was experiencing all the above side effects with nausea, joint pain, stomach pain and then my colon started slowing down to a crawl. Whoa! Was I eating these blueberries last year when my colon stopped working????

I check the label. Sometimes companies change the recipe so it's a good idea to review the label every so often. Ingredients: Organic Blueberries. CERTIFIED organic. So what am I to think? Do I trust the label of a big-box, money-making machine? Or do I trust my instincts knowing myself and knowing the symptoms I experience with chemical exposures? Why do they taste so strong? Are they truly organic? Or are the berries organic with added flavorings or chemicals not on the label? They definitely don't taste like the organic berries I've been eating non-stop for the past five months. They don't taste like any blueberry I've ever had in my life!! Why am I reacting this year and not last year?

The scary thing is we really have no control over what we eat. What is being done behind the scenes? How many rules are being broken in order to make a profit? How would we ever know? My body knows. These blueberries are making me sick regardless of the reason.

I returned them to Costco. Costco is known for its very liberal return policy, but I know if one returns too much they will revoke your membership assuming you are not happy with their products which assumes the membership is not of value. I don't think I've ever returned anything, but I don't buy much especially in terms of food. Most of the food is not organic. The fresh organic produce is in large cases so for a single person unless I freeze it or can it which contradicts the whole concept of "fresh", it would go to waste. I normally don't trust big-box. Even when they say it's organic, one should take that with a grain of salt. My experience in the grocery industry taught me that.

The woman at the returns counter didn't seem very happy when I presented my cooler packed with ice and a bag of blueberries. She whispered something to the woman next to her which I thought was rude, but I think she just asked if it was returnable. She doesn't know about her own employer's very liberal return policy reputation? I thought everyone in the world knew.

"Was there a problem with the product?"

"I think there is. These don't taste like blueberries and they made me very sick."

She mumbled something under her breath. I said loudly, "Excuse me?"

"I've never heard that before." Bitch.

"Well, I considered just throwing it all away, but someone needs to know there might be a problem with this product." I wanted to scream THESE FUCKING ORGANIC BERRIES ARE ANYTHING BUT, however, I really have no proof of anything only my symptoms. I find in these situations it's best to maintain a level of sanity.

She didn't respond.

She gave me my money back for the one bag ignoring the receipt that clearly states I bought two bags. The second bag was the one I ate from so I didn't bring it in for return, but you'd think she'd ask about it. Customer service sucks at Costco.

So I'm writing this blog post just in case someone else out there had a problem with Kirkland Signature Organic Blueberries. I looked online. Found all kinds of Costco products that have been recalled, but nothing on the blueberries. Of course, my inclination is to assume I am the ONLY PERSON IN THE WORLD with these reactions, but I have become very aware over the years there are thousands of chemically sensitive people out there with experiences just like mine and many of you, like me, can only tolerate organic food. If anyone has had a similar experience with this brand and these blueberries, let me know!

I decided to do one more test...buy frozen blueberries at my local co-op. They are beyond reproach and incredibly trustworthy. If their blueberries taste like perfume and make me sick, I'll conclude it's just me...maybe I am the only one reacting badly to blueberries! I purchased a one pound frozen bag of blueberries grown and packaged by Stahlbush Island Farms. They were $5.00 or twice as much as the Costco berries. The co-op no longer sells frozen bulk blueberries. After too many bad experiences I hesitated. I really didn't want to eat them, but felt obligated. No reaction, no illness. They were fine.

Coconut Oil as Insect Repellent

I just read this article from the Environmental Health Bulletin, December 2018:

Coconut Oil Better Than DEET to Fight Insects

A team of researchers led by entomologist Jerry Zhu with the USDA's Agricultural Research Service Agroecosystem Management Research Unit analyzed data using coconut oil compounds against biting insects and bedbugs. Their data revealed the compounds had a strong repellency against mosquitoes and ticks. By comparison, DEET was only fifty percent effective against biting flies, while the coconut oil compound was more than ninety-five percent effective. The researchers compared the coconut oil compound against DEET on bedbugs and ticks and found DEET lost effectiveness after three days while the coconut oil compound was effective in repelling bedbugs and ticks for nearly two weeks.

The link to the research article is HERE

Natural remedies are very cool.

November Movie Reviews

*****  Exceptional

****    Great

***      OK

**        So So

*          Blah

Deserted was about a woman (Mischa Barton) who just got out of prison and goes with her brother to a hippie festival in the desert with three other women. Their car breaks down so they accept a ride with three men in an RV who are going to the same festival. Driving in Death Valley at night isn't a good idea. After a night of drug-induced cavorting, they wake to find out the battery on the RV is dead, they have no idea where they are, and one of them is dead. None of them bothered to tell anyone where they were going so they start walking in hopes of finding civilization. One by one they die. It was an adequate story. Not sure the point of the ex-convict plot line. The performances were OK. ***

The Female Brain was about an anal retentive neurological researcher who knows so much about how people's brains work she doesn't trust them. She's studying several different types of couples based on the differences between how men and women think and therefore behave. The scientific data presented at the beginning is really interesting, especially the stuff about why women act the way they do. **

Freak Show is about a gay kid with a crazy, alcoholic mother (Bette Midler) who goes to live with his rich, conservative father when mom goes into rehab. He's very flamboyant, loves to dress up in wild costumes, and is constantly being bullied and beaten up by kids at his new school. I love the morning of his first day of school...the maid said, "You might want to re-think your outfit. You are now living in a red state". It had some really funny moments, but most of them were shown on the previews. I loved his courage and humor in the face of all that opposition. ***

In Your Eyes is about a man (Michael Stahl-David) in New Mexico and a woman (Zoe Kazan) in New Hampshire who have shared some kind of telepathic connection since they were little. They can see through each other's eyes and feel what they feel. It was a little far-fetched, but such a wonderful uplifting story about connecting with another person. Of course, both look like they are talking to themselves constantly so people think they are crazy. She's married to a doctor who eventually has her committed and he's an ex-con on probation with problems of his own.  Still, really sweet story with a great ending. I wish I had a friend in my head who could see what I experience and feel what I feel. ****

The Isle of Dogs is an American animated movie set in a slightly futuristic Japan. Legend has it dogs were banned from Japan, then reinstated which according to the local cat-loving ruling class, the Kobayashi Dynasty, created a "dog saturation crisis" due to overbreeding. The dogs come down with dog flu and snout fever (infected by the dynasty in order to get rid of dogs and replace them with mechanical dogs) and the prime minister (Kobayashi) uses fear propaganda to turn the citizens of Japan against all dogs, banning them to Trash Island where Japan dumps its garbage. The first dog to go is the prime minister's twelve-year old newly adopted/distant nephew/ward's guard dog, Spots. The boy steals a plane, flies it to Trash Island to find his beloved dog. Cute story.  The Japanese people all speak Japanese and it's translated through translators or foreign exchange students. The dogs all speak English and sneeze constantly (snout fever...LOL!). Beautiful animation and art.  I'm not fond of the dogs as gods mentality and the current dog epidemic so I rather liked the idea of all dogs banned to an island. It had a agenda I found realistic, but the bad guys were obviously the ones not to root for. The line up of celebrity voices is impressive with Brian Cranston the lead stray and Scarlett Johansen his love interest, a show dog...Ed Norton, Jeff Goldblum, Frances McDormand, F. Murray Graham, Liev Schreiber, Angelica Huston...even Yoko Ono has a couple lines! ***

Just Charlie is about gender dysphoria and a boy who feels trapped in a male body and hiding who he/she really is. Very sad. It must be difficult. Good story. Good performances. ***

A Kid Like Jake is about a four year old who has a very creative imagination, loves princess movies, and dressing up in dresses. He's about to go into kindergarten and his parents are stressing out how he will fit in or if he'll even get into any private school. A lot of views of New York City. With every scene change, panoramic view of the city, view of buildings, view of streets. Not sure the point. Good performances. **

Rampage is about an experiment gone wrong, transported on a space shuttle which blows up and infects animals on earth, specifically an alligator, a wolf, and a rather tame gorilla at the San Diego Primate Center run by the Rock. These animals start growing like crazy, becoming aggressive, and killing everything in their path. It got pretty bloody and gross. The special effects were a little unbelievable. I turned it off. *

A Trip to Spain with Steve Coogan and Rob Brydon. I think this is the third installment after England and Italy. It's two guys traveling and eating fine food. They are both really good at impressions and I kept wondering are they improvising or if it's all scripted. I vacillated between envying their carefree, close relationship and feeling irritated at all the chatter. Constant talking. At times it was funny, especially the impressions, but I know if I were traveling with them it would get really old really fast. There is a scene where they are sitting with two women who are listening to this constant chatter that should be funny and they looked uncomfortable as if they were expected to laugh but were just tired of it. It's like being in a classroom with two obnoxious boys who are competing for attention. The Mick Jagger and David Bowie impressions were great though. Beautiful landscape. Gorgeous food. **

We the Animals is about three brothers growing up in a volatile environment with unpredictable parents. The youngest escapes nightly into an imaginary world illustrated in his notebook. The art work is awesome. ***