I recently ran into a friend at a local store. I know he is a fan of organic foods and based on our few discussions, he is a health aficionado. He keeps me posted on new places to get organic food and I like people who are health conscious. During this visit we jumped on the topic of essential oils. I can't remember how we got there but he said on occasion he uses essential oils. This is going to sound sexist, but why does a man want to stink like that? I asked him why and he shrugged, muttered, but didn't really give an answer. I came right out and told him essential oils were totally unnatural.
He began defending them like an addict, "Oh no, you can get the organic kind!"
I tried to explain my very bad reactions to essential oils, and he countered it with, "You must not be using the organic kind!"
I assured him I had and it doesn't matter. But more importantly, how does he know they are organic? Anyone can label anything organic as long as it has one ingredient that is organic. How does he know those organic herbs aren't mixed with additives, stabilizers or preservatives? Toulene is in every perfume. How does he know manufacturers don't slip in some Toulene to help liquefy the oils? Does he know how the essential oils are processed? If they are so natural, why do I react badly to them? I'M CHEMICALLY SENSITIVE! I'M A CANARY! He didn't have any answers although he assures me he's read articles and the oils he uses are organic and healthy and natural.
Of course, I countered that with my standard defense: essential oils are natural like plywood is natural. The analogy went right over his head.
"Oh, no, plywood isn't natural."
To which I replied, "Why not? It's wood!"
"No! There are fillers and glues and processing." Really. He still wasn't getting it. This is the mindset of an addict.
In the past I did a lot of reading and research on essential oils. I thought I'd give it another crack and see if I can find updated information. Here's some tidbits of information although nothing new:
There are many ways essential oils are processed. Distillation is currently the most trendy. There is also "solvent extraction" which is preferred for herbs and flowers that are less stable. Yes, CHEMICAL extraction. If that one doesn't tickle your fancy essential oils can be processed with "Florasols extraction". Florasols is another solvent originally developed as a replacement for Freon. So I'm wondering, can an essential oil manufacturer use organic plants but use chemical extraction for processing and still call the product organic? Hmmmm...
People with health problems such as asthma, epilepsy or hypertension shouldn't use them. Hmmm...
They are a danger to pets as their livers can't process them. Well, what about human livers? Granted we are bigger, but if a pet can't process them why is it assumed a human can? WHY would a human want to? Dogs are used for medical research because their physiology is so close to humans. So if essential oils are not safe for pets, why are the considered safe for humans? Hmmm...
Some essential oils are photo toxic creating photosensitivity which makes the wearer vulnerable to sunlight. Where have I heard that before? Oh, that's right! Pharmaceuticals are also photo toxic as well as chemical-laced lotions and beauty products. Why? Because they have chemicals in them. If you've read my posts on skin cancer, you know I believe chemicals cause cancer NOT sunshine. Hmmm...
Do not put essential oils in eyes, nose or ears as it could lead to chemical burns. Chemical burns? But I thought they were natural? Ingesting too much oil can burn one's stomach walls. This is anything but natural. It might have been natural as a sprig of lavender, but it's not natural as a bottle of poison. Hmmm...
Doesn't this sound like the warning label on any number of chemicals? So why do people think they are so natural and healthy? What is the point in using essential oils anyway? More importantly,
why do I react to essential oils as if I'm being poisoned if they are only natural plant materials, healthy and organic?
Today I ran into another acquaintance who I really like, who is always very elegant looking with beautiful hair and make up, and who had a bout with skin cancer not too long ago. However, she doesn't wear perfume. She tells me it bothers her and wonders how people can wear so much of it so often. I introduced the idea of chemical addiction...perfumes and colognes are chemicals. She hadn't thought of that. At that point she discloses she rather enjoys a dab of essential oil now and then. After all, it's natural, isn't it? Again, I pull out my arsenal of defense: PLYWOOD. It's such a great comparison. She seems to get it, but she's not having it and decides rather than listen to the person who is chemically sensitive, who has bad reactions to chemicals, and who has bad reactions to essential oils (Logic 101), she decides she'll have to consult the grocery grunt who stocks shelves because of course that imbecile must know way more than someone who is actually chemically sensitive. I think the unenlightened will do anything to justify their bad habits and find anyone who would support them before actually questioning the facts. I think I'd be less insulted if she'd just come right out and say, "I don't give a shit what you say or how sick my stink makes you, I'll wear my stink. Fuck your health."
I usually do really like my unenlightened friends. I tolerate their bad habits. When they arrive at my house stinking of chemicals I keep my mouth shut and adjust my position upwind. However, this constant attempt at educating them is absolutely exhausting. They know me. They know I'm chemically sensitive. Yet they still use toxic laundry detergents, soaps, hair products, lotions, make ups, and...essential oils. They just don't get toxic products are toxic to everyone. Just because they don't react doesn't mean it's not affecting them. Or they just don't care.
From another blog post of mine:
Unfortunately the term "natural fragrance" or "essential oil" on an ingredient list doesn't necessarily mean it is safe. In a study analyzing 35 top selling products, green, natural and organic fragranced products emitted just as many hazardous chemicals as regular fragranced products. That's because most essential oils in consumer products are processed with a toxic solvent. In addition, essential oils containing terpenes such as pine and citrus oils react with ozone in surrounding air to create secondary pollutants such as formaldehyde, acetaldehyde, acetone, and ultrafine particles.
To all you out there who are so self-centered that you use essential oils (or any fragrance or scented product or chemical) and persist in poisoning innocent bystanders...STOP! Please STOP! It does not make you smell good! It makes you smell desperate for attention, lacking in self-esteem, and stupid. When your body overloads, you, too, will join the ranks of the chemically sensitive! Yes, I wish chemical sensitivity on EVERYONE. Then everyone would be forced to be fragrance-free.
I went on a date last night with a woman who's had a lot of health issues. She eats organic and uses things like fluoride-free toothpaste . . . and she's admittedly obsessed with everything lavender. It's natural. What's natural about it? I like your plywood analogy, but it will be unconvincing to people who believe that their oils are processed without synthetic chemicals. And I'm sorry, but I'm willing to bet that most of these people who object and stand by THEY'RE products because they're organic are probably using all sorts of "natural" products that are not organic.
ReplyDeleteSo the question remains: how natural is this, really? Well, the extraction and concentration are overwhelmingly unnatural. Well, many fruits contain cyanide, therefore it's natural. Extract it and concentrate it and what happens?
Pick a lavender flower and tell me how long the fragrance lasts. How long is the growing season? Did people have access to overwhelmingly concentrated lavender every day of their lives? Of course not. But a little good must mean that a lot will be a lotta good.
EXACTLY! I really appreciate someone who shares my common sense. I have no idea how to get through to these stink addicts who persist in defending their bad habits!
DeleteGood post! I developed MCS after being bombed for years with neighbors chemicals - and pesticides. Best wishes, afb
ReplyDeleteWelcome to my blog! Feel free to peruse and comment. I tend to be very opinionated (hehehe) and have written a few posts on essential oils. Thanks!
DeleteThank you for your post! I am also MCS and have been to the ER multiple times due to reactions stemming from perfumes and essential oils that others insisted on wearing and spraying scented product (YES...SPRAYING IN A PUBLIC PLACE when (in some cases) they knew I had a health issue relating to their sprays!).
ReplyDeleteI have left my children's concerts to go use my nebulizer instead of enjoying their music. I have missed out on time at work. I have taught my students with no voice (one of my reactions to certain scents) because co-workers used scented wax melts in their rooms, and I have been accused of faking/overreacting - to the point of people 'testing' me and using perfume when they thought I wasn't looking to see if I would truly react (BTW... I did!).
I appreciate people sharing the information that can help inform those who use these heavily scent-laden products that we truly are suffering as a result of their desire to smell 'pretty'.
Lavender is supposed to be good for headaches, stress, and I forget what all else... since this is a scent that I react strongly to, it actually gives me a headache and CAUSES stress because I know I will react and end up sick.
One analogy that I stick by when trying to help people understand that "all natural" does not equal safety is the fact that peanuts and shellfish are both all natural...yet they can literally kill a person who is allergic. It is no different for essential oils and those who react to them...they are dangerous because we are allergic/sensitive regardless of how natural (or processed!!) they are!
Thank you for your blunt and honest information! I pray that someday the whole world understands how dangerous all of these items are for us!
Yes, I wish more people understood and I hope my posts help not only those who are constantly being told they are ridiculous or psychotic because essential oils make them sick, but also help those who are addicted to them realize this is not a sign of health! Thanks for commenting.
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